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U.S. Paid Leave Policies Lag Behind

The fifth in a seven-part series by guest blogger Erin Barone for Family Forward Oregon, sharing insights from their action + discussion group The High Cost of Motherhood . ————————————— The United States is one of only five nations across the globe that provide no paid maternity leave. The other four? Lesotho, Liberia, Swaziland and Papua New Guinea. Take a look at this visual map . It’s pretty striking. (To see the map, choose “Pregnancy, Birth or Adoption” from the left menu, then choose the “Global Map” button, then “Duration of Paid Leave for Mothers” then “Get Map.”) Surprising, yes, but keep in mind it wasn’t all that long ago that it was legal to advertise gender-specific job openings. The struggle for a family and medical leave policy has a long history in the United States. While some wanted to dissuade women from entering the work force, and companies feared the expense, feminists too had problems with maternity leave. They wanted women to be treated equally and, in their view, a woman’s place in the workforce could too easily be damaged by a focus on maternity leave. It took years of debate (and two vetoed bills) before President Clinton finally signed the Family & Medical Leave Act (FMLA) into law in 1993, just 19 years ago. So how does our family leave compare to leave policies in other countries? Let’s look at France. As a French mother, I would be given anywhere from 16 weeks (at 84 percent of my salary) to three years (with some form of reduced pay) of leave. If I were a single mother, I would receive regular government support payments until my child turned 3. And all French families, regardless of income, receive a family allowance that is more generous than any tax deduction or credit the United States offers. It’s true the French government instituted these policies to combat a declining birth rate by encouraging families to have more children, but it’s important to note that that part of their plan hasn’t worked. As a matter of fact, French families have slightly fewer children than families in the United States. What the policies do is reduce the number of children living in poverty. An unacceptable 20 percent of all U.S. children ages 17 and under live in poverty compared to about 8 percent in France. And the United States doesn’t just fall behind other countries when it comes to paid maternity leave. Germany, Denmark, Sweden, Finland and Norway provide generous paid maternity leaves (about 30 to 42 weeks or more) as well as separate paid paternity leave, shorter work weeks, significantly more vacation time, high-quality and affordable childcare and a well-funded public education system. By stark contrast, a new mom in the United States is allowed 12 weeks of unpaid leave if she works for a company with 50 or more employees. Period. Childcare easily can cost as much as she earns. And we all know what the funding situation for our public schools looks like here in Oregon. In her book The Invisible Heart: Economics and Family Values (New Press, 2002) , Nancy Folbre takes a hard look at the programs the United States has in place to support families and children. Not only do we lag behind other countries in public support for families with young children, funding for these programs is declining – and they’re inequitable and often insufficient to achieve their goals. The repercussions of weak family leave policies and ineffective public assistance programs are huge – for families, our economy and our communities. From increased infant mortality rates to depression in mothers to lower cognitive test scores in children to poverty later in life, especially for women. The truth is, when workers get paid time off to get treatment for an illness or to care for a new baby or an ill family member, they stay employed longer. So while it may seem counterintuitive at first, offering paid leave leads to more economic security for families, which is cheaper for taxpayers, and people stay employed longer, which is good for employers. It’s time to catch up with the rest of the world. It’s time to catch up with those countries that have already realized the benefits of supporting pregnant women, families and young children. The examples are out there, with years of data to help us craft a robust and family-friendly economy. Learn more about the benefits of paid family leave: The Effects of Paid Family and Medical Leave on Employment Stability and Economic Security Rutgers Study Finds Paid Family Leave Leads to Positive Economic Outcomes Next Week’s Conversation: Next week it’s time to start thinking about solutions. What are the building blocks of a family-friendly economy? What looks promising for Oregon? Who are our allies and where do we want to start? Share Your Thoughts: What are your thoughts on the questions posed above (under “Next Week’s Conversation”)? What do YOU want for the future?

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If You Could Change One Thing, What Would it Be?

The third in a seven-part series by Family Forward Oregon; written by Lisa Frack. —————————— Our conversation during this week’s “High Cost of Motherhood” discussion + action group ended with a question to which we all, understandably, had different answers: If you could change one thing about the public policies that affect how motherhood works (or doesn’t work!) for you personally, what would it be? Of course our answers depended on our individual circumstances, but together they make a pretty good list of the changes many mothers need: One stay-at-home mom would stop penalizing mothers for caring for kids full-time. There is an opportunity cost for moms who step out of the workforce to care for kids – even if it’s only for a short time. One survey of 200 mothers with MBA degrees found that those who took an average of only 8.8 months out of the job market were less likely to reach upper-middle management and earned 17 percent less than comparable women who had no employment gaps. Another economic analysis in England estimated that a typical middle-class British mother of two forfeits almost half of her potential lifetime earnings. No wonder motherhood is a leading predictor of poverty in old age. There are creative solutions to this opportunity cost, such as: (1) enabling stay-at-home mothers to earn social security benefits, which they also forfeit while out of the workplace; and (2) enabling mothers who receive government support to count caring for their own small children as “work,” instead of the current rule that only counts paid work toward a work requirement. One unemployed new mother hopes for onsite childcare when she returns to work. Having childcare near your work makes it easier to keep nursing once you return to work, keeps kids closer to you in the event of an emergency, and makes commuting far more efficient. It’s worth noting that while employer-provided childcare can work, relying on employers to “do the right thing” isn’t a full answer for all parents, plus it is an expensive endeavor that only certain types and sizes of employers can provide. A problem with it is if you change jobs, does your child then change childcare providers, too? One idea is mapping “childcare deserts” like people are now mapping food deserts, so we start by knowing where there are plenty to serve workers and where there aren’t. Urban planning regulations often require a certain number of parking spots per square foot of an office building – why treat cars better than young children? An employed mom with two part-time jobs would like to have health care for herself; her two kids are on OHP. It is terrific that the state of Oregon offers health insurance to all uninsured children . But, the fact remains that for parents, health insurance is cheapest when provided through the workplace. Because many mothers work part-time jobs to be able to care for their children and reduce childcare costs, they aren’t eligible for health insurance, which often kicks in at 30 or 40 hours per week. We read a good bit on the negative impacts part-time work can have on employees’ pay and promotion rates, even though for many mothers it is a preferred option that enables them to support and care for their children while staying connected to the workforce, which matters for their long-term earnings potential. As for me, someone who thinks about the public and workplace policies that affect parents a lot, the one thing I would change – now that I have a 6- and 9-year-old – would be to shift our current, agrarian school calendar to something that jibes better with today’s families real lives. The typical employee gets two to three weeks of vacation annually, while most students are out of school for a full four months. The childcare/summer camp costs are exorbitant; lower-income kids who aren’t enrolled in high-quality, expensive camps fall behind; and parents need and want to spend time with their children rather than sending them to camp five days a week while they work. There have been experiments with alternative schedules and there is research on their success and impact on parents . —————————— Next Week’s Conversation: Next week we tackle the care economy : Caring for children, the elderly the sick and disabled is not seen as work in our culture. However, it is critical to the functioning of our economy and society. How can we redefine work to include care? —————————— Share Your Thoughts: What would YOU change if you could change just one thing about the public policies that affect motherhood?

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Best Birthday Party Tips?

You might already have seen our February issue , which features a comprehensive guide to birthday party venues and services throughout the area, whether you’re planning to celebrate at home or away. The options are beyond plentiful, with something to please every child, at every age, and within every budget. What’s more, a dozen local businesses have donated parties, products and/or services to our Fabulous Birthday Party Give Away ! How can we not have birthdays on the brain? But while it’s fun to imagine the parties we could host at every venue -– or using every service provider -– listed in our guide, we want to hear about some real birthday parties you’ve hosted for your kids. What was the best birthday party your child has had yet? What made it so special? What’s their -– or your -– dream party? What have you learned from hosting kids’ parties? What would you recommend doing –- and NOT doing –- when planning a child’s party? We love providing our readers with useful information and resources, such as the birthday party guide in our current issue, but we also know our readers are the real experts in town. Let’s all help each other by sharing our party successes, party fails and party planning tips! After all, who doesn’t love a good party?

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January Coupons & Deals

With every new issue comes a new set of coupons and deals. Here’s what you’ll find in our current issue : EcoMaids: Your initial house cleaning is only $149. (Page 5) Dancing Brooms: Schedule two cleanings, receive $50 off your third. (Page 6) The Little Gym of Lake Oswego: Free introductory class. (Page 2) Music Together: Free demonstration class. (Page 2) Raising Our Sons/Raising Our Daughters Parenting Guides: Receive 20 percent off with code “Metro Parent.” (Page 17) Sylvan Learning: Get a free assessment for your child. (Page 18) World of Smiles Pediatric Dentistry: Complimentary dental exam for children under 2. (Page 5) Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry: Free initial exam for children under 3. (Page 15) Learning Palace: Take 15 percent off all regular priced items. (Page 19) Tidee Didee: Get one free week of diaper service with four prepaid weeks. (Page 37) (We even have a PDF version of the magazine , for easy coupon clipping.)

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November Coupons & Deals

Here’s the scoop on the coupons and special deals you’ll find in our current issue : John’s Incredible Pizza: Afterschool Special coupon gives you the all-you-can-eat buffet, unlimited non-alcoholic beverages and 40 free credits for $8 per person. Valid Monday through Thursday, 11 am to 4 pm, through Nov. 17. (Page 45) IKEA: For every IKEA soft toy you buy, they’ll donate $1 to help educate kids. (Back cover) Play Boutique: Get $25 off any birthday party, 20 percent off your Beeztro food order, and/or unlimited stay and play for $395 annually. (Page 20) Sunriver Resort: With the Sugarplum package, stay between Thanksgiving and New Years Day and receive a $50 credit per night towards activities, spa services, dining or shopping. Rates from $149 (Page 21) Piano Connection: Piano checkup only $10. (Page 6) EcoMaids: Get 10 percent off any service. (Page 29) Kohloff & Welch Attorneys at Law: Wills $300. (Page 25) Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry: Free initial exam children under 3. (Page 5) Sylvan Learning Center: Get a free assessment for your child ($195 value). (Page 13) Learning Palace: Take 15 percent off your entire purchase. (Page 22) Bob’s Red Mill: Buy one Bob’s Red Mill product, get one free at the Mill Store. (Page 22) Tidee Didee: Get 1 week of free diaper service when you prepay for 4 weeks. (Page 33) Happy saving! (For a PDF version of the magazine, click here .)

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September Savings!

Have you checked our September issue for coupons and deals? Here’s what you’ll find: EcoMaids: Get a full house cleaning for $169. Page 19 Oregon Gymnastic Academy: Take $15 off your first month’s tuition (new students only). Free trial class, too! Page 29. Buttons ‘n Bows: Get a free Melissa & Doug Jumbo Coloring Pad with every purchase over $25. Page 33. Sylvan Learning: Get a free assessment for your child. Page 20 Our World Learning: Take $2 off admission to a JJ Jump/Our World Open Play Session. Page 6 Learning Palace: Take 15 percent off your entire purchase. Page 22 Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry: Free initial exam for children under 3. Page 2 Tidee Didee: One free week of diaper service with four paid weeks. Page 35 Happy saving!

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Our Education & Enrichment Issue

Our annual Education & Enrichment issue is hitting the stands beginning this week, packed with articles and listings to help you find the best school for your children and support their academic success. Inside you’ll find a primer on many of the different Educational Philosophies available around the area as well as a feature to help you decide if it’s Time for a Tutor . We offer tips about helping your child with homework and helping them succeed academically throughout their school career. And for those of you looking ahead to college, we have a feature on college savings and one debunking the myth of the “best” colleges . You’ll also find listings for a host of local schools to help you find the one that best fits your family and your child. Pick up a copy wherever Metro Parent is distributed, or look for it online beginning next week.

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Win a Fabulous Birthday Party Package!

What’s better than hosting a fabulous birthday party for your child? Winning a fabulous birthday party for your child! In our February issue , you’ll find a comprehensive guide to local party resources, whether you want to host a party at home or away, something simple and sweet or elaborate and extreme. Now we’re offering our readers the chance to win one of 14 party packages donated by the following businesses, from complete birthday parties to fabulous supplies that will make any party you host spectacular. Cupcake Academy : 503-621-7520; cupcakeacademy.net . The Circuit Bouldering Gym : 6050 SW Macadam Ave.; 503.246.5111; thecircuitgym.com . Fairy Garden Parties : 503-957-9768; fairygardenparties.net . The Merry Kitchen : 5202 NE 72nd Ave.; 503-946-8357; themerrykitchen.com . Metro Mountain Climbing : 503-327-4712; metromountainclimbing.com . My Masterpiece Art Studio : 7905 SW Cirrus Drive, 27G, Beaverton; 503-453-3700 ; mymasterpieceartstudio.com ‎. Oaks Park : 7805 SE Oaks Park Way; 503-233-5777; oakspark.com . Once Upon A Horse : Lake Oswego; 503-635-7403; onceuponahorse.com . Oregon Fencing Alliance : 6699 SW Oleson Rd.; 503-467-9891; oregonfencing.com . The Oregon Garden : 879 W Main St., Silverton; 503-874-8100; oregongarden.org . Out of this World Pizza and Play : 6255 NW Century Blvd., Hillsboro 503-681-8866; outofthisworld.net . Pizza.com : pizza.com/portland . The Portland Children’s Museum : 4015 SW Canyon Rd.; 503-223-6500; portlandcm.org . Sherwood Ice Arena : 20407 SW Borchers Dr.., Sherwood; 503-625-5757; sherwoodicearena.com . How to Enter: Go to metro-parent.com/contest and submit your name, address, phone number and e-mail address. You can also send your information to Metro Parent, P.O. Box 13660, Portland, OR 97213. One entry per family. See additional terms/details online at metro-parent.com/contest . Contest ends February 28.

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Win a Fabulous Birthday Party Package!

What’s better than hosting a fabulous birthday party for your child? Winning a fabulous birthday party for your child! In our February issue , you’ll find a comprehensive guide to local party resources, whether you want to host a party at home or away, something simple and sweet or elaborate and extreme. Now we’re offering our readers the chance to win one of 14 party packages donated by the following businesses, from complete birthday parties to fabulous supplies that will make any party you host spectacular. Cupcake Academy : 503-621-7520; cupcakeacademy.net . The Circuit Bouldering Gym : 6050 SW Macadam Ave.; 503.246.5111; thecircuitgym.com . Fairy Garden Parties : 503-957-9768; fairygardenparties.net . The Merry Kitchen : 5202 NE 72nd Ave.; 503-946-8357; themerrykitchen.com . Metro Mountain Climbing : 503-327-4712; metromountainclimbing.com . My Masterpiece Art Studio : 7905 SW Cirrus Drive, 27G, Beaverton; 503-453-3700 ; mymasterpieceartstudio.com ‎. Oaks Park : 7805 SE Oaks Park Way; 503-233-5777; oakspark.com . Once Upon A Horse : Lake Oswego; 503-635-7403; onceuponahorse.com . Oregon Fencing Alliance : 6699 SW Oleson Rd.; 503-467-9891; oregonfencing.com . The Oregon Garden : 879 W Main St., Silverton; 503-874-8100; oregongarden.org . Out of this World Pizza and Play : 6255 NW Century Blvd., Hillsboro 503-681-8866; outofthisworld.net . Pizza.com : pizza.com/portland . The Portland Children’s Museum : 4015 SW Canyon Rd.; 503-223-6500; portlandcm.org . Sherwood Ice Arena : 20407 SW Borchers Dr.., Sherwood; 503-625-5757; sherwoodicearena.com . How to Enter: Go to metro-parent.com/contest and submit your name, address, phone number and e-mail address. You can also send your information to Metro Parent, P.O. Box 13660, Portland, OR 97213. One entry per family. See additional terms/details online at metro-parent.com/contest . Contest ends February 28.

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Do You Have a ‘Tween?

If you’ve got a child who’s 11 or 12 years old, it’s time to schedule an appointment with his or her doctor. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, and the Oregon Partnership to Immunize Children, every 11- and 12-year-old should get a check-up to monitor growth and development and receive vaccinations against meningitis, whooping cough, flu and –- especially for girls -– human papillomavirusvirus (HPV). For more information, talk to your child’s doctor, visit cdc.gov/vaccines/preteen/ , or read the articles on page 18 of our October 2010 issue, and page 27 of our October 2009 issue.

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Free Parenting Workshops at IKEA

If the holidays are stressful and overwhelming for you, just imagine how a child — especially one with sensory integration challenges — must feel. There’s the excitement of opening presents, the hubbub of visiting relatives, chaotic schedules and deviations from the familiar routine. It’s no wonder so many children become overstimulated and act out. But help is on the way, and it’s coming from an unexpected source. IKEA is hosting a free Sensory Integration workshop for parents on Nov. 17 from 10 am to noon, in conjunction with the Multnomah Education Service District (MESD) Early Childhood Program. During the workshop, an occupational therapist will share tips, tools and activities to help children process the often overwhelming sensory stimulation that comes with the hectic holiday season so everyone can enjoy the celebratory time together. This workshop is just one in a series presented by the Portland IKEA store — along with their MESD partners — to support local families. The series grew out of the IKEA staff’s desire to offer training related to autism, Asperger’s and general early childhood development for employees working in their free childcare area, Småland. After their first staff workshop, says Marketing and PR Specialist April Minister, “We said, ‘Hey, this is all great information. It’s wonderful that our co-workers have this training but wouldn’t parents really want this as well?’” They held their first free workshop for parents in May, focusing on Positive Parenting, and have since expanded the program to offer an ongoing series of workshops for local parents. It all fits IKEA’s mission to be “The Life Improvement Store,” says Minister, adding, “What’s more fundamental to improving life at home than improving the relationship between parents and children? That’s really how the positive parenting series of classes came about.” Upcoming IKEA Positive Parenting Workshops: Nov. 17, 10 am to Noon: Sensory Integration. Jan. 12, 10 am to Noon: New Year’s Resolution – Being a Better Parent in 2011. Mar. 14, 10 am to Noon: An Overview of Autism Spectrum Disorder. Apr. 9, 9:30 am to 12:30 pm: Free Developmental Screenings. MESD developmental specialists will offer free assessments; no appointment necessary. May 2, 10 am to Noon: Back to School – Get Ready, Get Set, Get Organized. Learn some tools you can implement over the summer to make sure your kids are ready in the fall! Jun. 11, 9:30 am to 12:30 pm: Free Developmental Screenings. MESD developmental specialists will offer free assessments; no appointment necessary. Jul. 11: It Takes Two – Strategies for Communicating with Your Child. All workshops are held at the IKEA store, 10280 NE Cascades Parkway, and are free. Space is limited, so sign up early by visiting Småland, the in-store free childcare play area, or by sending an email to lifeimprovement.portland.us@ikea.com . Free childcare is available at Småland with pre-registration for children who are between 37 and 54 inches tall and are potty trained. More cool kid-friendly happenings at IKEA: Every Wednesday evening from 6 to 8 pm kids can enjoy special activities in Småland . Free Gingerbread House Decorating Workshops will be offered from 4 to 5 pm on Nov. 16 and 18 and Dec. 14 and 15. (Space is limited. First come, first served. Limit one gingerbread house per family.) Can’t make it? Pick up an Anna’s Gingerbread House Kit at IKEA’s Swedish Food Market to create at home ($4.99). For more information, visit ikea.com/us/en/store/portland/activities .

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Do You Know What Your Children’s Goals Are?

How would you react if your child started hanging out with a youngster who wouldn’t be your first choice in a friend for him? What if your teen, after years of banking on a four-year university in her future, told you she wanted to attend a technical school or earn a two-year degree instead? In this month’s Viewpoint, available online only , Emily Moser, director of parenting programs at Oregon Partnership , discusses the important issue of goals – our goals for our children, and our children’s goals for themselves. Find out how you can set the stage for your children to make their own well-reasoned, values-based decisions, and how you can rein in the natural instinct to jump to conclusions or judgment, focusing instead on meaningful conversations that will help you discover what your children’s goals are for themselves and their lives – and stay connected to them throughout their lives. After all, isn’t it our most important job as parents to encourage our children to be confident, to know what the right thing is – and do it – and to always be their own wonderful unique selves? Read the full article today.

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September Science Extras

Simon McFarlane, then 8, builds a circuit board with his mentor John DeLacy. In our September issue , we explore simple ways to nurture scientific literacy at every age. It’s not that we think all kids should grow up to be scientists. We just want to encourage a generation of people who are enthusiastic about exploring the world around them -– and who understand how to think critically and draw their own, well reasoned conclusions. While the article offers tips for parents with children of all ages, there were a few tidbits of wisdom we couldn’t fit into our print issue. Good thing we have the Internet! In Supporting Your Child’s Scientific Passions , we introduce you to Lorie and Simon McFarlane. Simon, now 13, has always been intensely interested in science, and it wasn’t long before his mom, Lorie, realized she’d have her work cut out for her keeping his enthusiasm alive and offering him challenging opportunities to explore. Read the article online to find out how Lorie has kept Simon engaged and enthusiastic – with a little help from area experts. In Taking Action – the Ages and Stages section focusing on 11 to 14 year olds (and older teens), we talked to a local teen who has entered and won several science competitions. While some kids are drawn to more unstructured experimentation, science competitions can provide excellent opportunities for young people to formulate and execute their ideas in a formal setting. In addition to school science fairs, there are numerous private science contests open to students at all grade levels. Check out our list of selected competitions – for kids of all ages – to learn more. We hope you’ll enjoy reading the full article, Inquiring Minds Want to Know! , with advice and anecdotes about raising scientifically literate kids at every age and stage. We’d also love to hear how you and your family make scientific exploration a family affair that’s fun for everyone!

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